The Keys to a Successful Marriage
Building a Healthy Marriage Webinar
December 10, 2022 9 Pm (India Time)
VENUE - ONLINE VIA ZOOM
IT IS EASY TO SAY BUT HARD TO DO
Common issues in married life that creates the big difference
Have you ever thought about why marriage looks like a challenge?
Do you really think marriage is the hardest decision of life?
What can be the actual relevant reasons for dissolved marriages?
…and the list of such questions just goes on.
Marriage is such a beautiful relationship which consists of two different individuals who come together and marry each other. These two individuals can never be the same like the fingerprints and DNA can never be the same even of the twins. Such individual differences of both the partners are meant to be understood and accepted by a couple which helps them to make their bond stronger. A couple is supposed to compromise to make their marriage work efficiently.
We all must have heard this line “IT IS EASY TO SAY BUT HARD TO DO”. Despite sharing a good bond with benefits for their well-being, the relationship of a couple is never without challenges. Their issues put strain on the couple and it is strictly believed that working through them can either strengthen the bond they share or push them apart forever which completely depends on how effectively they make efforts to handle the challenges they have.
IT IS EASY TO SAY BUT HARD TO DO
What separates happy marriages from miserable ones?
"Marriage doesn't make you happy, you make your marriage happy."
The Secrets to Having a Happy Marriage
What ruins the marriage?
Marriage is ruined by various factors that include:
It is alone enough to make your marriage ruined. Lack of communication makes the couples part their ways as they do not find any interest in their relationship.
Expectation often leads to unhappiness and dissatisfaction. Couples expect so many things from their partners but when they do not find their expectation getting fulfilled, they lose personal interest in their partners and have issues in marriage life until they fix them.
Lack of sexual feelings, no interest in having sex and high or low sexual feelings are some issues couples may experience in their relationship. Such issues can be the reason for ruined marriage.
In a relationship, couples are supposed to support each other instead of controlling to show dominance over their partner. Controlling your partner can put your married life at risk.
Couples help each other not criticize, so this habit needs to be improved and eradicated as soon as possible to have a happy married life
Life partners each other to grow and fulfil their ambitions. On the other hand, some couples create hurdles and obstacles for each other that can cause other troubles and ruin their relationship badly.
In laws’ interferences
Sometimes in-laws’ interferences hurt the sentiments of the couple and they feel hatred for each other and their family as well. They brought the families into their personal matters and hurt them emotionally.
Extra marital affairs are another common reason for a ruined marriage where a dissatisfied partner seeks love outside of the marriage and fulfills the needs. There are various reasons for extra marital affairs but it is enough to end the marriage.
Any intentional act that causes injury or trauma to a person by way of bodily contact is physical abuse. In most cases, women are victims but in some cases men are victims as well, for example the recent popular case of Johnny Depp and Amber Heard. This factor is illegal and can put the abuser in jail that may result in damaging the marriage.
Emotional affairs can be just as damaging to the marriage as physical affairs because they do not include any act related to adultery which is not enough for the spouse to have formed an emotional connection with another person. This can leave both the spouses mentally tortured. Thus a happy married life is ruined.
"A happy marriage is a union of two good forgivers."
Learn The Ways To Improve Your Marriage
What to expect during a webinar
An interactive session outlining the major components of a happily married life. Learning to understand your relationship as a couple and the focus of a happy marriage. Understanding of the common issues occuring in a marriage and how they adversely affect the relationship. Learning to recognize commitment issues and reasons behind them. Outline of unhealthy behaviours and toxic relationships. Learning healthy coping behaviours and trying to build a solid foundation in your relationship.
Lisa Varun Shukla is a Counselling Psychologist and Life Coach who is trained in Family and Couples Therapy from Muktha Foundation. She has been working closely with couples for over many years as a Counsellor and helped them improve the quality of their relationship through therapy. She is also professionally trained in CBT, REBT, Suicide Prevention, NLP, ACT, Emotional Freedom Techniques among other Art therapies and Mindfulness Meditation .
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